Rocky Freda: A Friend And Sportsman’s Advocate Will Be Greatly Missed
There are so many cliches that are used when someone unexpectedly passes on. Nearly all of them are fitting for my good friend Rocky Freda. Rocky and his wife Lisa, were dedicated advocates for outdoor sportsmen all over the state of Maine and beyond. Rocky died suddenly last week and the news that came to me that morning left me in shock, speechless and deeply saddened.
I had spent two months this summer at our camp in Maine, only a few miles from Rocky’s home and business. I had spent a day with him and Lisa working on their web site, always having a good laugh. What great people.
The day before my wife and I headed back to Florida, I dropped in to Rocky’s to pick up a video he wanted added to his web site. When I arrived, Rocky was finishing up loading a van and trailer full of canoes and kayaks and was headed for the river. He yelled as he drove away, “I left that video with Lisa in the office!” Those will be the last words I remember and of course the big smile on his face.
As I sat here at my home in Florida, I struggled to find any focus. My mind drifted, overcome with sadness, concern for Lisa and the rest of the family. We can never prepare for these things and when they happen we can only seek the comfort of friends, family and God.
My mind traveled back to a day many years ago. My wife and I were managing the River View Resort on Rt. 2 in Bethel. Rocky came knocking at my door and introduced himself. He was real, warm, enthusiastic and a thinker. I doubt his mind ever stopped working, not only constructing for himself a better life, a better business, but it had to also fit into the grand scheme of things that included all of us. Rocky understood how things worked and that included everyone in his community.
“Only the good die young”, “Has anybody here seen my old friend Rocky? Can you tell me where he’s gone?”
I’ll miss you my good friend! You’ve left a void in my life.
Rocco R. Freda – 1949 – 2009
NORWAY —Rocco R. “Rocky” Freda, 60, husband of Lisa (Whitcomb) Freda, of Sunday River Road, Bethel, died unexpectedly Friday, Aug. 14, in Norway.
He was born in Leominster, Mass., on Jan. 27, 1949, the son of Rocco and Alberta (Leet) Freda, and graduated from Leominster High School, Leominster, Mass., in 1967.
Rocky came to Maine in the mid 70s to work for Agway, running a fertilizer plant in Auburn, and later trained as a dairy nutritionist and crop specialist working at Agway until 1994. He later guided caribou hunts in Canada for Lac Lucault for two years, then opened Sun Valley Sports & Guide Service in 1995 which he was running until his death.
Rocky was a master Maine Guide, a former member of the Bethel Planning Board, president of the Bethel Area Chamber of Commerce in 2005 and on the board of directors for seven years, current president of Trout Unlimited and also the Upper Andro Anglers Alliance. Lisa and Rocky received the Governor’s Conference on Tourism Award for Excellence in Tourism for commitment to innovation.
Rocky is survived by his wife of 15 years, Lisa (Whitcomb) Freda, of Bethel; his mother, of Norway; one son, Corey Freda and his wife, Jill, and their three children, Justin, Chelsea and Caleb, all of Leeds; as well as two nieces and five nephews.
Rocky was predeceased by his father; and one brother, Stephen.
Tom Remington